If you can't compare with Kazakhstan, don't interfere with whether young people have children or not! 比哈萨克都不如,就不要对年轻人生不生孩子指手画脚了!

 


Recently, the Kazakh International News Agency posted on Chinese social media, saying that Kazakhstan is constantly improving welfare policies such as women's education, employment, vacation and health, and providing institutional guarantees for all families who are willing to cultivate the next generation.

Earlier, a Chinese scholar asked Kazakh officials how to make female college students have children after graduation, and give birth honestly and obediently? 

Many Chinese people are not clear about the development and construction of Kazakhstan. But in this incident, the Kazakhs have done a remarkable job, better than some Chinese scholars. 

Everyone needs to eat, and people's livelihood problems are a major concern for people to have children. 

The author believes that it is not enough to create employment opportunities, increase investment in education, and improve social security. It is even more necessary to establish two kinds of awareness at a deeper level: respect for people and awe of Tao. Because the root of the population problem lies here. 

The uterus grows on oneself, and young people have autonomy. People who are close to each other should also make suggestions in moderation and have due respect for people. 

Unless it is an extreme special case, there is no need to worry that the sky will fall if young people make their own choices. 

It is precisely the kind of paternalistic thinking that wants to control everything and intervene in everything that will cause the sky to fall. 

Nature has a "macro-control" mechanism and has given animals and plants the instinct to reproduce. 

Under normal circumstances, a few people give birth to a lot, a few people do not want to or cannot give birth, and most people are willing to give birth and can give birth. 

As long as there is no human intervention, the gender ratio will be naturally balanced and the generational replacement rate will be achieved naturally. This is God's arrangement and the regulation mechanism of nature is at work. 

However, human intervention, action and recklessness distort and disrupt the natural harmony of the operation of all things. 

As a result, there will be an imbalance in the gender ratio and an insufficient generational replacement rate, which will trigger a series of economic and social problems. 

As Lao Tzu said: "Governing a large country is like cooking a small fish", don't mess around. 

This kind of messing around is to believe that man can conquer nature. Anyway, this is not good, that is not good, everything can be planned, should be supervised, and everything should be decided for others. 

Under the paternalistic monopoly and grand narrative, in the name of "for your own good", "for the world", and "for all eternity", people are not allowed to make their own decisions and the current lives of specific common people are ignored. 


Under this thinking, everything can be included in the plan and supervision. People think they are wise and powerful, manage heaven and earth, conquer nature, and transform the world, but they will create a bunch of bigger problems. 

If new plans and supervision are used to solve these problems, it will fall into a vicious circle. 

Why are there so many people? How to limit their births? Why don't they want to have children? How to let them have children? This is one example. Those so-called experts and scholars, please stop giving bad ideas! 

Taoism advocates following nature and governing by inaction. It especially values ​​life and attaches great importance to the right to life. 

Sima Tan commented on Taoism in "On the Essentials of the Six Schools": "The guiding spirit is concise and easy to implement. There are few things to do but the results are particularly good." Laozi said in "Tao Te Ching": "My words are very easy to understand and very easy to practice, but no one in the world can understand or practice them." 

Because in the Spring and Autumn Period, there was no power check and balance. The princes and ministers would not use power carefully due to human nature, but would think about tossing and squandering the common people and slaves like fuel to satisfy their own selfish ambitions. 

Therefore, the root of the population problem, that is, how to generally establish a sense of respect for people and awe of Tao? It also lies in modernization beyond the material level, upgrading ideology and culture, and improving institutional construction.

近日,哈萨克国际通讯社在中国社交媒体发文,表示哈萨克斯坦不断完善女性教育、就业、休假和健康等福利政策,为所有有意愿培育下一代的家庭提供制度兜底。

而此前,一名中国学者问哈方官员,如何让女大学生毕业就生孩子,老老实实、服服帖帖地生?

 

对哈萨克斯坦的发展建设,中国人多不清楚。但在这一事件上,哈方人士做法可圈可点,比部分中国学者做得好。 

谁都是要食人间烟火的,民生难题是人们生育的重大顾虑。 

而笔者认为,光靠创造就业机会、加大教育投入、完善社会保障是不够的,更有必要在更深层面树立两种意识:对人的尊重,和对天道的敬畏。因为,人口问题的根子在这里。 

 

子宫长在自己身上,年轻人有自主权。关系亲近的人有建议也应适可而止,要有起码的尊重。 

只要不是极端特殊情况,不用担心年轻人自主选择,就天会塌。 

恰恰是那种家长式的思维,啥都要管,啥都要插一手,才会造成天塌式的问题。 

 

大自然有“宏观调控”机制,也已经向动植物赋予了繁衍的本能。 

在常态下,少数人生得极多,少数人不愿生或生不了,而多数人愿生也能生。 

只要没有人为干预,性别比自然平衡,世代更替率自然做到,这是上天的安排,大自然的调节机制在发挥作用。 

 

而人的干预、有为、妄为,扭曲、扰乱了万物运行的自然和谐。 

于是,就会出现性别比的失衡、世代更替率的不足,引发一系列经济社会问题。 

如老子所言:“治大国若烹小鲜”,别去瞎折腾。 

 

这种瞎折腾,就是信奉人定胜天,反正这不好、那不好,啥都可以计划、应该监管、都要替人作主。 

在家长式包办和宏大叙事下,以“为你好”“为天下计”“为万世计”的名义,就是不让人们自己作主,忽视一个个具体庶民的当下生活。 

 

在这一思维下,一切都是可以纳入计划和监管的,自以为英明神武、管天管地、征服自然、改造世界,结果反会造出一堆更大的问题。 

如果为了解决这些问题,又以新的计划和监管去解决,就会陷入恶性循环。 

怎么人这么多?怎么限制他们生?怎么不愿生了?怎么让他们生?就是其中的一个例子。那些所谓专家学者,就不要再出馊主意了! 

 

道家主张顺应自然、无为而治,特别贵生,将生命权看得极重。 

司马谈在《论六家要旨》中评论道家:“指约而易操,事少而功多”,而老子在《道德经》中说:“吾言甚易知、甚易行,天下莫能知、莫能行”。 

因为在春秋时期,谈何权力制衡,侯王公卿出于人性就不会慎用权力,而是想着去折腾,去把庶民、奴婢当作燃料一样去挥霍,以满足自己的私欲野心。

 

  所以,人口问题的根子的根子,即如何普遍树立对人的尊重意识,和对天道的敬畏意识?还在于物质层面之外的现代化,升级思想文化,完善制度建设。

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